Improving Physical Intimacy In Relationships

This article concerns libido enhancement within a relationship. Time to re-light that fire!

In new relationships the sex is always fun, exciting, and new. At some point, this newness where’s off, and the sexual aspects of the relationship can become routine and sometimes even mundane - it is time to improve libido.

Prior to falling into this rut, get to know your partner, what they like, what they’d like to explore, and what their fantasies are. There more intimate details that you know about your partner the less chance there is of your sex life becoming… well… boring.

Okay, so knowing what your partner wants is only the first step to increase libido in a relationship. Acting on these fantasies – typically – does not come naturally. So the key is to remember what you partner wants and expects and actually act on these.

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Unless your partner has thousands beyond thousands of fantasies, you shouldn’t act on them on a daily basis. As exciting as fantasies are, if they become routine, you are back in the same boat and it will be time to improve libido again. Save the really exciting and exotic fantasies for special occasions, or after a fight.

As for every day needs, wants and desires, play these out to your best interest. Use them just enough to keep your physical intimacy active, but not so much that things – again – become routine.

If the two of you can be this open with each other, and use the other’s desires for the benefit of the relationship, you will naturally begin to develop other ideas and fantasies - this way you can increase libido naturally.

Be creative, talk openly – even if it’s embarrassing – the intimacy that this type of communication and bond builds is unbelievable.

Believe it or not, the act of creativity – together – will improve your sex life on its own!

So here’s the real trick to libido enhancement – DO NOT stop doing this with your partner. Over your years together continue to make your sex life fun and exciting.

It does take work and a conscious effort on both parts. When, and it will, it seems as if you’re the only one trying, don’t get discouraged. Let it go for a few weeks, if it continues, mention it to your partner, maybe even in a sexual manner.

There is no doubt that they are aware of it and will either tell you the reason behind it or just change it within the next couple of days.

After all, you’ve already been intimately open with each other, this will help to bring that physical intimacy back!