Jealousy in Relationship Dating

This article involves jealousy and dating - a frequent relationship problem.

Jealousy, in any relationship, is freakishly similar to having a love triangle – it’s like a third person constantly involved in every decision, love making, quiet moments, and more.

Typically, a jealous significant other can make up un-imaginable scenarios, in their head, of what the other person is doing.

Unfortunately, this only leads to the belief of the scenario and bitterness and hatred towards your significant other.

Before you can even say something, to your significant other, the jealousy becomes obvious in your behavior – especially your behavior towards that special someone. Unfortunately, when this happens, the stress, tension, and resentment, that was within you, is now directly in the middle of your relationship, as your loved one begins to also have these same feelings.

They may, or may not, have any idea why your behavior has changed, and is consistently worse. They may even try to approach you about the issue, but until your ready to discuss the problem of jealousy relationships, this is likely to turn into and extremely defensive argument.

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Let’s say, on the other hand, you are very open about your jealousy and constantly hounding the love of your life about these scenarios. Who are they eating dinner with? Who are they talking to? What was talked about? Why are they talking to particular people? And many, many other questions, only lead to defensiveness from your significant other – whether they are really acting in the wrong or not – NO defensiveness does not mean you’re right!

In either of the above scenarios, this jealousy has now caused trouble in your relationship. You either believe that something is amiss, or something really is amiss. Either way you look at it, there is suddenly a third party in your relationship – and an unwelcome one at that.

If it is at all possible, and your significant other has never given you a reason to distrust them, and you’re the type that thinks they need to know everything about what your partner is doing, you’re going to have to dig deep, find that trust that you once had – even if it’s the trust you had in adults as a child – and begin to teach yourself to believe in the person you’re with.

Regardless of it is a jealous girlfriend or jealous husband... Without this - without that trust - without knowing that your partner is with you because of who you are, you will constantly have nasty love triangle that cannot be mended.