What Do Women Want?

Have you ever asked "What do women want?" - Of course, you have.

Movies have been scripted for it. Books have been written on it. Songs have been composed about it.

The world never gets tired of trying to find out what women want.

(Note: what women want is different from what girls desire.
Read about what girls want, here.)

You will be happy to hear that women are much more predictable than girls are in this area. Women are at the point in their lives where they are being constantly poked in the side by their genetic programming and it's shouting "find a mate, it is time to reproduce!"

This goal may be consciously or unconsciously acted upon, but they will act upon it eventually.

After grasping this little concept (that almost every single woman has the "I-need-to-reproduce alarm" ringing), you will know what women look for in a man and never ask yourself "What do women want?" again.

Imagine the desire for reproduction as the foundation of a building. A woman will then build upon that by using the following building blocks:

family Economic status or current wealth. A man with a higher (better) economic status will always be preferable to women over men of lesser financial security, even if the "lesser" man is more physically attractive.

This may sound a little cynical to you, but in this context of "what do women want", it isn't.

Women need a man that can provide the best opportunity for her and her children's survival. The better your current resources, the better your chances are at getting a woman. (Why doesn't this make her a gold digger? Click to find out.)

Secure, trustworthy, and stable. What do women want? Women want males that they know will stick with them through thick and thin.

If a woman feels that you are not trustworthy or dependable, she will not trust you with being the father of her children.

Being able to provide security and safety whenever called upon is a major characteristic women crave.

Social status within a group. Females (of every species) have always been wired to desire the dominant male over the weaker males.

This, again, goes back to the issue of mating. A dominating male will not only provide the woman with superior genetics than a weaker male, but will also provide better protection for her and her young.

Intelligent. In addition to providing desirable genetics, women want a man that is able to think and find solutions to the family's problems.

Healthy size and strength. Women do not care about your looks as much as girls do, but they still consider certain physical aspects with high regard. what do women want

Most women prefer a muscular male, tall in stature with other masculine characteristics. This gives the woman a sense of safety with her partner.

Loving and caring. What do women want? Women want their man to be affectionate, loving towards them, and caring towards their children.

The more that a man displays this potential to a woman, the more she feels confident that he will not abandon her.

A good sense of humor. Women value this characteristic because it makes the relationship enjoyable. Knowing when to relax and enjoy each other is just as important as knowing when to get serious about business.

Without a sense of humor men appear rigid and cold - not good. Laughing often is often the best form of therapy for any couple.

Sexually passionate. Women do enjoy simply having sex. Therefore, a man with a healthy sexual appetite is on every woman's checklist.

If you remember the building block analogy from earlier, you will understand why every woman wants her male to be a "million dollar mansion" - built with every one of the above attributes.

Lucky for us, since no one is perfect, women are realistic and willing to settle for the best that they can get, even if it is just a "one-bedroom apartment".